Is your child often not feeling well or is it difficult for you to understand your child? It could be that something that you are or aren’t doing is the cause of your child’s imbalance.
Are you a mother or father who would like to make things easier for your child? My work with you and perhaps occasionally your child can be an opportunity to achieve exactly that.
I work on areas that can be difficult for parents to work on by themselves with their child.
I help you by using your own body. The general rule is that our inability to handle our own imbalances often has consequences for our children. That is why it is important to look at ourselves when we are incapable of understanding the behaviour of our children.
Your children copy you. They develop themselves in many ways as a mirror image to you. They do what you do and not what you tell them to do. That is the reason why you need to pay attention to your own behaviour if you want to be a good role model to your children.
If you do have emotional issues that you choose not to take care of, they might have consequences for your children and your relationship with them.
The situation may have reached a dead end where you feel it is difficult to communicate with your teenage child. The behavior of your child will probably change in pace with your handling of your own challenges.The children will feel a change in your behaviour and your personality, which in turn will make them consciously or subconsciously alter their own behaviour. Parents are consequently often struck by a change in their relationship with their children, from one of opposition to cooperation.
When you become aware of your own feelings, behaviour and ways of expressing yourself, your relationship with your children will improve. Your positive example will even teach your children to better communicate with their own future children. Your efforts will save them from having to do the same work and repeating the same negative behavioural patterns. You will have broken a vicious cycle.
As challenging as working with yourself might be, it is never too late to begin.